Welcome to MOPS and MOPS NEXT at First Federated Church!

MOPS/MOPS NEXT stands for Mothers of Preschoolers and into the next step -- Elementary school. We exist to meet the needs of every mom -- moms with different lifestyles who all share a similar desire to be the very best moms they can be! MOPS/MOPS NEXT recognizes that the years of infancy through kindergarten are foundational in a mother-child relationship and are filled with unique needs. MOPS/MOPS NEXT helps moms through relationships estabilished in the context of local groups that provide a caring atmosphere for today's mother of young children. Come join us at Federated to begin your quest to be the mom God intended you to be!

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Our Next Meeting

Don't forget our MOPS meeting... September 28!

We have a very special activity: MAKING APPLE PIES! YUMMY!
Please bring: knives, corers, and a pie plate to MOPS to help make these pies.

We will provide: the recipe, apples, spices, dough, cooking spray, foil, as well as extra things in case moms' forget (knives, pie plates, etc.)


See you there -- MOPS: September 28 -- 8:45 Registration begins!

Sunday, September 19, 2010

HELP KIDS SUCCEED & STAY ORGANIZED: TOP TEN TIPS

By Mary Sigmann, CPO®

1. Have a planning session each evening with your child to go over the next day's activities and schedule. Preplanning and preparation are the foundations of success.

2. Establish systems and timelines to prevent tardiness, forgotten supplies, and lost homework assignments. Organized kids feel more in control and competent.

3. Help your child understand the benefits and consequences of their actions. What are the benefits of turning your homework in on time? What can happen if you leave a pair of shoes in the middle of the floor?

4. Keep a family calendar posted. Keep everyone informed of the activities which involve them.

5. Assign age-appropriate responsibilities to help the household stay organized. From feeding the pet to taking out the trash, kids can be a great asset to keeping the home running smoothly.

6. Set a timer if kids have trouble staying on task. Let kids know they can stop or switch tasks when the timer goes off.

7. Establish accountability and reward systems for keeping bedrooms neat and orderly, completing homework assignments and following through on promises. Be sure to establish specific instructions and guidelines for your child’s responsibilities. If they are clear about what you want and expect, they are more likely to succeed.

8. Create rituals or habits you can share that nurture you and your family. Go for an after-dinner walk, read together or discuss goals. Discover activities that bring the family closer and make everyone healthier and happier.

9. Reduce the clutter by keeping only what is currently being worn or used in your child’s room. Box up the rest and rotate seasonally.

10. Model the behavior and expectations you place upon your child. Be sure you set the example for simplicity and organization.

© Copyright Mary Sigmann, CPO®

Mary Sigmann is a Certified Professional Organizer®, coach and speaker. Please visit www.organizer-coach.com for additional information, articles and tips, or contact Mary at harmonypro@aol.com. **Mary spoke at our MOPS last year.

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Through their Eyes

We had a great challenge from Sherri Stufflebeem yesterday about three things that every child needs when we look at the world through their eyes:

1. Every child needs to know we love them!
2. Every child needs to have boundaries!
3. Every child needs to know Jesus!

Here are the resources that she listed for us:

Boundaries with Kids
by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend




Parenting is Heart Work
by Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller
Revolutionary Parenting
by George Barna

Leading Your Child to Christ
by David Staal

Monday, September 13, 2010

MOPS Question of the Week:

What was your favorite summer activity to do with your children?

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

One Week and Counting

What will you be doing at this time next week? I hope your answer is the same as mine: I WILL BE AT MOPS!! YEAH! I am so looking forward to the beginning of our new MOPS year, not only to get back into that routine, but I am so excited to see all of you! We have all had such great adventures over the summer to talk about -- places we went, people we saw, funny things that the kids did, and the embarrassing things that the kids (or husbands) did! I am sure it will be hard to get all of you quiet so we can begin the meeting!! :)

We are looking forward to seeing you... please make every effort to come! It will be a great morning filled with catching up with friends, prizes, free gifts, yummy breakfast, a presentation from Sherri Stufflebeem ("Through their Eyes: What every kid needs to know"), and small groups!

See you there!